Confident and Killing It: Stop Comparison Stealing Your Joy

Want to stop comparing yourself to others? Then you NEED these brilliant mantras in your life from Tiwalola Ogunlesi’s Confident and Killing It.

We know we shouldn’t compare ourselves to other people, yet we still do it. That happens because a lot of the time we aren’t even aware of it. It’s one of those things we do on autopilot. So, if we have any real chance of tackling this thief, we need to become more aware of its tactics and create our own comeback for it.

Your biggest fear shouldn’t be that someone else is better than you. Your biggest fear should be that you had the opportunity to grow and evolve, but never seized it. You stayed the same person your whole life, never daring to leave your comfort zone or bet on yourself.


Click here to download Tiwalola’s magnificant daily mantras to stop comparison from stealing your joy!

Confident and Killing It by Tiwalola Ogunlesi is out now, available in hardback, eBook and audio.

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